Thursday, March 31, 2011
Loving and Missing
Loving
1. Family and friends being so close. This is something that I missed even when I lived in Houston. I would have dreams of coming home and working close to family. Now that we have a little one on the way I feel the tug to be close more than ever. I know that I will be crying at the airport this time around!
2. Driving a car around. I feel so free. If I want to visit a friend then I can go and not have to plan my day around walking and what the weather might be.
3. Good pedicures. I try and try to like them in Brazil but I can't. Even though they are cheap nothing compares to what you get in the US. In Brazil they cut off all your cuticle to the point where you are bleeding then paint your entire nail including the surrounding skin then dig a green stick dipped in nail polish remover around the nail and into your bleeding freshly cut cuticles. Of course I have told them before to cut only a little but somehow I always end up bleeding. Then they don't take the calluses off which is the main thing I love about pedicures. Basically I just don't go because I cringe each time. Plus I don't see the tools coming out of an autoclave so who know how many other people have been bleeding on them....
4. Understanding everything everyone says. It always takes me a few attempts to respond to someone in English at the Rio airport. It's like I am so surprised to be spoken to that I don't understand my own language! There are only a few people in Brazil that I speak English to so if your not that person then I get confused. A guy in my building asked me and the Aussie a question in English and we both just stood there unable to speak. Eventually non-English/Portuguese sounds came out of my mouth but I am sure the guy was really confused! I still haven't run into him again to say I am sorry.
5. Good roads. I am really going to get a speeding ticket this trip home. I found myself going 80mph in a 65 and I didn't even feel like I was going fast. I have had to put the car in cruise control just to manage my lead foot. First I am not used to driving and second to see open roads feels like a dream. I can't even imagine how Nate feels when he comes home. I bet not one spout of road rage comes out of his mouth.
6. Thick Yogurt. In Brazil I cannot find any for the life of me. The watery stuff will just have to do which make a great addition to the smoothies I make but not to eat by itself. When I went to the grocery store with my mom that's one of the first things I bought.
Now for the missing stuff.
1. Warm weather! I miss getting up and not having to worry about jackets, slippers, and a blanket. These days I have to psych myself up to take a shower because I am so afraid to take off my warm clothes!
2. Fresh fruit. I miss my mango, passion fruit and papaya. Not to mention all the watermelon and pineapple that are making my mouth water right now. I know that this 'miss' will never go away. Of course when we move back I will get used to the weather but the fruit I will also long for. I almost bought a small papaya at the grocery store the other day for $3.15 and I couldn't. Maybe if I wasn't returning to Brazil in a few weeks I would have but I can hold out and all that fruit will taste so much better!
3. Walking everywhere. I know that I complain about not having a car in Brazil but I really think I would still walk a ton. I miss my morning walk along the beach and the peace it brings. I could walk here but let's be honest I am sorta lazy so it's not going to happen. Kind of like my study Portuguese while I am away.
4. Not Understanding everything everyone says. I know that I put the same thing as love but I think it's a love/hate relationship. I enjoying hearing what people say when they are talking to me but I don't love overhearing someone's phone conversation. Do I really need to hear that you are getting bunions taken off tomorrow? Plus in Brazil I feel that every conversation I have in Portuguese helps me. My brain is always working which can also be a bad thing! I tire easily :)
5. The calming sound of the ocean. I didn't realize that it help me sleep. The sound took me awhile to get used to when I would wake up in the middle of the night and think that someone kicked down the door. Now I find myself tossing and turning longer than usual. I downloaded an app for my iTouch but it doesn't run all night long so I wake up when the sound stops. Weird. I hope that Belle won't get this attached because we will be toting around a sound machine everywhere!
Of course the list's on both sides could be dragged out to the point boredom but I won't do that to you all. Enjoy the life you have and try not to take for granted the good things. If you let negative thoughts run your life then you miss out on so much.
Tchau,
Sara
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Chicken Farm
Good luck mom :) I still think we should number them... Number 4 and 5 are down while 6 is trying to escape!
Tchau,
Sara
Monday, March 28, 2011
Flying and 1st Baby Shower
Thursday, March 24, 2011
City Life
I find myself dreaming of moving here and taking all my friends from Macae here too. I just don't get it though. Macae is the oil capital of the state of Rio. The National oil company Petrobras is stationed in Macae as well as every other major oil producer and supporter. So why does the city have nothing? Maybe it's because our mayor has a castle in Europe....
The point is that Rio is a city that I could really like and enjoy. A city where life doesn't get put on hold until we get transferred back to the states. The possibilities are endless! Who knows. Maybe we will never get the chance to transfer to Rio and that's ok too. If we do then I will put a big smile on my face because things will be looking up!
I get ahead of myself. Even though I have friends here in Rio we wouldn't be able to live close to them because of Nate's office. In Macae a short walk and I have so many wonderful people to have lunch with, walk, workout, grocery shop and have girls nights! I guess it's a catch-22. Close to friends or live in a great city.
Good thing I don't have to make that decision now or ever. The company will tell us when and where we move. For now I will focus on enjoying my time here and losing sleep over my upcoming trip home :)
Tchau,
Sara
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
21 Weeks and Counting
Then Nate and I made the long dreadful drive to Rio which I has become very old. Checked into the Windsor, since it was the only hotel with an availability this week, not the Sheraton. I find it so weird that Rio runs out of hotel vacancy so fast. I am sure that we could find somewhere to stay in a random hostel but that's not our style when your here for business. Anyway, I digress. We had to bargain with the hotel taxi who said they were giving us a special deal with the hotel car..... for double the price of a yellow taxi! The guy said I give you a ride for R50 and we said no. Then he said well I usually charge R100 and that's when I started laughing at him! Yellow cab took cost us R35. Ahhh I feel so bad for tourists who think they are getting a good deal.
We arrived at the ultrasound place with all my nerves intact. The ultrasound guy did half the consult in Portuguese which wasn't hard because it was just listing off the body parts he was talking about. Most of the medical terms are very similar in Portuguese so I had no trouble following. Then he switched to English when I didn't understand Renal Arteries. Hell, half the US population wouldn't know what that was in English :)
Isabelle is doing great! (We switched from Isabella to Isabelle since we want to call her Belle. Just makes sense). She is still a girl which is something that I was worried about. When we found out at 14 weeks it seemed kinda early to be 100% sure but I guess our guy is that good. Right now she is completely average and is measuring for the same due date given on our first doctor's appointment. August 1st is her date and we are planning on staying in Rio for the last two weeks of July until she is born.
She has all 10 fingers and 10 toes, four chambers in her heart, two kidneys, ventricles in the brain look normal, all the bones are appropriate length, no cleft palate, two eyes, and that's about it! It's so neat to see her heart beating inside of me. You can see all the chambers working together and you could even tell where the foramen ovale was! I always loved see the echocardiograms done in the hospital but now it's even cooler that it's my baby!!!
I have a ton more photos to post for you but I don't have a scanner here in the hotel. They will all have to wait until this weekend when I get to my parents house. I really cannot wait to get home and see my whole family and all my friends. I might just cry when I see them. Ya, that's the emotional part coming out. Well off to a movie with a friend!
Tchau,
Sara
Sunday, March 20, 2011
Fishing Tourney
Tchau,
Sara
Saturday, March 19, 2011
Pool party and cook out!
Happy Saturday
Tchau,
Sara
Friday, March 18, 2011
Awkward!!!
Today started and I knew that people were coming to look at the house. Well, it turns out that they were here to take photos of the house to put on the internet for a listing. The minute I found out I texted Nate who then turned into the Hulk. Knowing that my Portuguese was not good enough to explain the legal aspects of the situation and be able to understand the response I put them on the phone with a co-worker of Nate's.
Not sure what was said but the men turned to leave. I then told them I was sorry and it's just not safe to have photos on the internet with our address. During this conversation Nate called and asked if they deleted the photos.... ummm no I didn't see them. Then I was told to make sure they delete them before they leave. Oh no. How am I am going to do this. Then Nate said take the camera away and delete them or wait for him to get home to take care of the situation. This just took a turn for the worse. Oh no oh no oh no I don't want to do this.
So I sucked it up and told them that for security reasons I need them to delete the photos. I am five months pregnant and I don't feel safe having the photos out there. Sem problem, eu entendo (no problem I understand). Holy! O my that was easier than expected! Then I had to watch him delete all the photos one by one in front of me. When he was leaving I told him to try to have a good day :)
Wow. This would have been awkward in English but it's really awkward in Portuguese! Nate and I can both laugh now at the situation but it was really weird. Nate said he can just picture his pregnant wife wrestling away a grown man's camera. Ha, that would be funny but it wouldn't ever happen! Ahh. The weird crap that happens day to day.
I don't think I need to explain the safety situation here. Hope everyone is having a wonderful Friday.
Tchau,
Sara
T - 1 week until I leave for the US!!
Thursday, March 17, 2011
Hate me please!
Tchau,
Sara
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Door guy??
I used to appreciate your presence but now I can't stand the sight of you. I am not sure what you do all day because you are not working. You have changed and not for the good. Once upon a time you opened the door for me but now you let me dig through my bags in the rain and watch me clumsily enter the gate. Each time I come down stairs your not there. Where could you be? I know: taking your two hour lunch, walking down the boardwalk, staring at girls on the beach, talking on your phone, banging the girl on the second floor who throws dirty dish water from her window onto our car, or watching other people work. The two pictures above are you caught in action. The first photo I am actually proud of you for having your shirt on but your playing with a stray dog instead of helping the guy who is in the second picture. The second picture is the guy who has been trying to fix the front gate for over a year now. I don't even want to talk about that subject. Even Claudia can't stand you and together we secretly make fun of you behind you back when you enter my house, walk all over my yoga mat and put your dirty hands on my white walls. Where ever the old Didi went please bring him back. That's all I ask.
Tchau,
Sara
The Visit
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Halfway there!
Sunday, March 13, 2011
Falling behind!
Tchau,
Sara
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Spider!!
A Brazilian Wandering Spider | World’s Deadliest Spider found at Whole Foods Market, Tulsa

Wednesday, March 9, 2011
Exhausted much?
It started on Saturday night staying out until 2-3am in Buzios with dinner and drinks, not for me, and watching all the random bloco parties pass by. Of course my sleep is then interrupted by bathroom trips so I end up waking pretty early in the morning. Then Sunday comes along and repeats Saturday and then Monday comes and repeats Sunday. Ouch.
I am pretty sure that today is Tuesday but I know for sure I will not last the rest of the week like this. I do have to be thankful that we are in Brazil because if I was in the US showing up at all the late night things I am sure someone random would give me advice that I don't need to be out that late. Please, I am pregnant not dead!!
Once again I am up earlier than everyone because of the bathroom trip..... deep breath and get ready for the day :) Today we are planning to watch a little OSU vs Nebraska basketball at a friend's house and then see where that takes us. The good thing is I have no problem stealing a nap this afternoon at their house!
Bom Carnaval!
Tchau,
Sara
Monday, March 7, 2011
Ahhh
Tchau!
Sara
Saturday, March 5, 2011
Visting Friends!
As for now I am hoping that our two guests make it through customs and immigration fast and then turn on there cell phones. If they don't then there could be a problem. If Nate can't be there to meet them- Surely they will right? Then after the pick-up they are driving back to Macae to drop off bags and pick me up for us all to go to Buzios! So excited!!
The clouds and rain want to grace us with their presence but the spirit of Carnaval in everyone will prevail!! No matter the weather fun will be had I can promise you that.
Tchau,
Sara
Friday, March 4, 2011
Cavaleiros Beach
Tchau,
Sara
Ps- sun I am still waiting for you!
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Electrocution
Tchau,
Sara
Married life
Lately I have been sick of the food when we go out to eat, contributing to the married life. It's overpriced and not as good as what you can cook at home. Besides, all the restaurants in town get their food from the same places we get ours... if you go early in the morning you will see all the guys running around with seven carts full of eggs, meat, yogurt, fruits, veggies and cheeses. So when you really think about it what's the point of having them cook your food? One of our favorite places to go has an amazing patio but the spaghetti, just plain meat sauce spaghetti, goes for R30 which is about USD $12. If I was in the US I would laugh at this price and order something different. Down here though ever single restaurant is the same and half of them are owned by the same guy. We still go out to eat but not as often as we used to now that my cooking level increased this year!
Since the dinner's on the table at 7 when Nate comes home from work we end up watching tv together after eating at the kitchen table. It doesn't take long for us to get sick of watching the same commercials over and over again before we turn the tv off, I turn on my book, and Nate plays a video game or two. Then off to bed we go.
Not a bad little routine but I cannot imagine doing this forever! I am sure that once Belle comes things will be different. For now I know that we both can't wait for our friends to be visiting and for life to pick up the pace again!
Tchau,
Sara
Tuesday, March 1, 2011
Go away rain!
1. Keeping track of all the leaks and which buckets need to be emptied is annoying. We have 4 at the moment and yes we have called someone about them. The guy is waiting on materials.... it's been 3 wks.
2. Resetting the clocks is annoying. Basically you have to ask yourself how many times can the power flash in a week before I stop resetting them all together. Whatever that number is, I am at that point.
3. Power going off in general gets on my nerves. Every time it even threatens to rain the power goes off on our strip. The rest of Macae can have power but we can't. Most of the time the whole city goes blank and we end up eating by candle light. Keep in mind these are not terrible thunder storms. These are your everyday kind of rain.
4. I have no car so when it rains I end up staying inside. All day. All night. It's not really that bad for me because I would do this in the US too even when it wasn't raining but just a day off of work :) A couple days in a row though and I get a little stir crazy!
5. Finally, because we have friends coming down this weekend! This weekend is also Carnaval and I want Brazil to shine for them :) We are planning to be in Buzios this weekend to celebrate and then head back to Macae for some home town love. The hotels are booked and we are ready for them to come. Maybe Brazil just wanted to clean the streets a little and give the grass a break before all her guests come to visit. I am ok with that!
Rain go away!!!
Tchau,
Sara